Exes typically fall into one of two categories: the kind we block on social media and cross the street to avoid, and the kind we dream about landing in our DMs and running into on a good hair day—perhaps fanning a flame that never went all the way out. But what about the exes we maintain contact with—you know, the kind who make our phones light up at 2 a. Is it ever a good idea to sleep with them? Some might argue that a tryst with an ex-partner is an ideal arrangement. They already know your most intimate curves and crevices, and you get to avoid the first-time awkwardness of sharing your naked body with someone new.
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Popular theory has it that banging your ex opens up old wounds and prevents you from moving on. Okay, sure, fine. I prefer to drag breakups out for weeks, months, years if I have to—to pick the scab over and over, until it leaves a scar. When I was 27, I ended a two-plus-year relationship that was deeply unbalanced. I spent many sad nights stealthily masturbating next to his snoring body. He went down on me a grand total of 2. Long story short, coffee turned into fucking.
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Wait until any anger pain hurt sadness resentment love is gone. While scraping all the morose marrow from your soul is impossible, and lobotomies are highly discouraged, time does heal. Let history smooth over the ugly fights and the hurtful words and the debilitating moments that created your ending.
March 14, References. To create this article, 21 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed , times. Learn more Hooking up with an ex is risky behavior that can lead you to get hurt all over again, but it can also give you a thrill to hook up with someone that you used to date.